One more point about forgiving. There is such a thing as a « toxic person. » This kind of person is not fixable, will never really be your friend, and will always aggravate you. You can forgive this kind of person (meaning stop being angry and don’t stew over it or wish ill will on the person) but it is useless to try to be/become/remain friends. No matter how kind and peaceful you are, there are certain individuals who will simply never be your true friend–because they have a problem. With this type of person, don’t let them affect you too much. Be businesslike and deal with them politely. Don’t expect them to ever change. It’s not you (you have many friends!) it’s that person who has the problem.

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